Private Coaching for Ethically Non Monogamous and/or kinky Couples and Individuals.

My private coaching program is personalized 1:1 private coaching with me. Together, we will work through a particular challenge you’re currently facing in your relationship(s). Past challenges I’ve worked with clients on include:

  • Processing and healing from betrayal and hurt from a current partner

  • Preparing for a group-play event, club, or party - whether you need to discuss a communication plan with the partner you’re attending with, or even what to wear and what to expect.

  • Building or re-negotiating sexual and romantic boundaries in your existing relationship(s)

  • Opening up your existing monogamous relationship so you can explore non monogamy together

  • Navigating ENM or monogamy as a sex worker

  • Planning a threesome so you can explore your sexual desires

I will gather resources that are specific to the needs of you and your partner(s) that will help you learn new relationship tools, whether it’s re-learning scripts for effective communication, updating your sexual health knowledge, or putting together a personalized review of everything you need to remember from our calls.

This offer includes private Zoom calls with me, plus all 1:1 coaching includes support outside our calls through direct messaging, so you can ask questions and reach out for reinforcement between our calls.


What previous clients are saying

“I originally started working with Rae in order to improve my selfie game and learn how to take better pictures, and she has been an enormous help in that regard. I'm far more confident and capable than I used to be, and she gave me the skills and strategies I need to pursue my creative ideas. Along the way though, she has also helped me with CNM relationship coaching, motivation advice, productivity tips, sexual health advice, and a wealth of other valuable insight. Rae is kind, thoughtful, funny, knowledgeable, and wise. I can't recommend her services highly enough.”

-Phil

“Rae is the coolest! She really gave me the tools and strengthened my confidence in living with, and disclosing my STI status to future partners. She was crucial in helping me undo the stigma and finding the prospect of dating again far less daunting. She is so easy to talk to, and really has her programming down to a fine science. She will help build you up to be the best you that you can be!”

-T