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6 skills over 6 weeks with 8 experts so you can safely play
Join us in Toronto for a hands-on event like no other! Our workshops will help you build your confidence and skills in a safe and welcoming environment so you can explore your wildest desires.
These workshops are beginner-friendly, don’t miss out on this unique opportunity to learn and connect with 8 educators in the field. This event listing follows Eventbrite community guidelines, please address any direct questions to the workshop host. This event is educational and not sexual in nature.
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How it works
Each week will have a theme and two educators. Class is on the following Mondays, from 7-9pm. Sign up for all 6 weeks for a reduced price and get access to our exclusive graduation play party, or buy your tickets a-la-carte. Only full 6 week course participants will have access to the graduation party.
January 11: Bratting with Lady Pim and Rae Szereszewski
January 18: Fear Play and CNC with Wiley Wolf and Rae Szereszewski
January 25: Sensual Massage (including Feet!) with Lush Lynn
February 1: Pain Play with Luna Matatas
February 8: O Control with Fialynn and Lady Pim
February 22: Neurodivergence and Kink with Yael Shoham and Sabrina Baldini
Bonus: Graduation Play Party
The exact address of The Kneeling Room will be given out a few days before the date of your class, but is located in the Parliament and Carlton area. The play party date will be released on the first day of class.
Workshop Details
All workshops are beginner friendly, and you can attend either solo or in a pairing/group. Classes combine lectures, demos, and group activities. All workshops are beginner friendly, and you can attend either solo or in a pairing/group.
Bratting with Pim & Rae
The first class of the KSI will begin with some group ice breakers, before heading into our topic for the night: BRATTING!
This class will explore this popular and sometimes controversial play style, in a manner that will give you a better understanding of how to play with brats, and how to be a better brat.
We will talk about bratting motivations, reactions to bratting, boundaries surrounding bratting, and lots of ideas for bratty scenes and bratty banter. And we guarantee you'll have fun doing it.
Fear Play with Wiley & Rae
Enjoy the anticipation of the unknown? Especially when the rug might get pulled out from underneath you? Let’s get the blood pumping in this exploration of the exciting kink known as Fear Play.
Join Wiley and Rae as they take you through mindfucks, misdirects, scary roleplays, threats, chasing, and more. They’ll discuss creative ideas for your kink scenes, and the tricky territory of negotiating surprises and the unexpected.
Erotic Massage (including feet) with Lush Lynn
Want to blow minds with your touch? Time to learn from the skilled hands of Lush Lynn.
This class will give you insight into massages that relax vs titillate, technique on centering pleasure for the giver, and tips on using more than just your hands. Not to mention, tons of technical knowhow to make the most out of your massages.
Pain Play with Luna Matatas
Craving pain, but unsure if you’ll like it? Or perhaps someone has asked you to hurt them, and you want to make sure you don’t, you know… HURT them?
In this workshop by Luna Matatas, we will discuss the plethora of pain-based sensation, pairing each with information on harm reduction and communication. Whether you want to start small with some nipple clamps, venture into different textures of impact play, or explore creative CBT predicaments, Luna’s got you covered.
O Control with Pim & Fialynn
Teasing, forcing, and ruining, O my!
Join Pim and Fialynn in exploring the full spectrum of O Control, from the maximization of pleasure, to the depths of denial. In this creative class, we will discuss chastity devices, controlling JOI’s, post O torture, and overstimulation. Discover all the ways you can incorporate O Control into the bedroom, the dungeon, or in everyday relationship dynamics.
Neurodivergence In Kink with Yael & Sabrina
It’s no surprise that Neurodivergent People are drawn to kink. The structure, the clarity of communication, the co-regulation, and the sensory specifications, to name a few. But what happens next?
This class aims to create a deeper understanding of the spectrum of Neurodivergent experiences, so that we can be more intentional about defining what accessibility and support looks like during our kink scenes.
Graduation Play Party
This is a private event for attendees of the Kinky Skills Intensive series. Tickets are FREE for those who purchased the entire 6-class bundle.
Come enjoy the elevated grace of The Kneeling Room and network with the community in an open house play party with full access and usage of the space’s furniture and accoutrements.
Your Educators
Lady Pim (she/her) is a Professional Dominatrix, kink educator, and owner of The Kneeling Room. Her practice is centred on playfulness, connection, and intentionality, and she hopes to add her kink philosophy to this mix of great educators and topics. https://www.ladypim.com/
Rae Szereszewski (she/her) is a certified sexual health educator and relationship coach. She aims to empower people to make authentic and informed choices in both their relationships and their sex lives. Rae has taught workshops for multiple universities across Canada, fraternities and sororities across Ontario, staff trainings at camps across Ontario, at sexual assault crisis centers, private groups, and more. Her coaching practice primarily focuses on helping ethically/consensually nonmonogamous and kinky individuals navigate their relationships. Her past lives included making body positive custom latex clothing, and creating sex positive events at a swingers and lifestyle club. www.sharewithrae.com
Wiley Wolfe (they/them) is a kink educator, coach, and community organizer based in Toronto, Canada, and the founder of the online education platform the Wolfe Academy of Desire. They also bring 9+ years of experience as a Pro Dominant, over a decade of professional experience writing for film and television, and a love of producing erotic horror immersive theatre. Their kink workshops have been sought after across the U.S. and Canada, including at Dark Odyssey, Kinkfest, and Westcoast Bound. Their approach is thoughtful, risk-informed, and focused on a fusion of immersive storytelling and nervous system manipulation to craft memorable scenes They delight in guiding both new and experienced players on their journeys, with a particular focus on self-exploration, deepening intention, and personal growth. https://www.worshipwileywolfe.com/
Lush Lynn is a Professional Pleasure Provider specializing in curating experiences for the erotically curious. https://lushlynn.ca/
Luna Matatas (she/her) is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 20 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. Luna has taught sexual wellness workshops internationally and locally with diverse communities. She celebrates body confidence, sexual self-esteem and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Luna teaches 30+ sexy skills topics; including threesomes, BDSM, and dirty talk. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. https://lunamatatas.com/
Fialynn (she/they) is a seasoned lifestyle kinkster organizing and attending events in the Toronto scene for the past decade. With a devious mind and passion for bondage, she's a top-leaning switch who thrives on getting into people's heads to elicit fun reactions. Fialynn has a lighthearted playful approach to kink, and doesn't take rules and roles too seriously: no idea is too out there! She brings this open-mindedness and experience to empower others to brainstorm fun ideas for future playtime.
Yael Shoham (she/her) is a social worker and psychotherapist specializing in trauma-informed, affirming care for neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, kink, and sex-positive communities. Her work centers communication and emotional regulation as tools for building the relationships and life clients actually want, grounded in curiosity, empathy, and respect for each person's autonomy. As a queer, neurodivergent therapist with lived experience of disability, Yael brings a lens shaped by both clinical training and personal understanding of what it means to navigate a world not built with you in mind. https://yaelshohamtherapy.ca/
Sabrina Baldini (she/her) is a internationally recognized sex educator, TEDx speaker, and seasoned public speaker known for turning awkward conversations into powerful, human ones. With over 120,000 followers across her platforms, Sabrina has built a loyal community around her signature style: funny, warm, and deeply informed.
Whether she’s speaking at conferences, corporations, or college campuses, Sabrina brings heart and humor to every stage, helping audiences rethink what they thought they knew about sex, empathy, and human connection. Her viral content and widely-shared TEDx Talk explore how understanding our sexuality can help us better understand each other — and in a divided world, that kind of connection matters more than ever. Find her at https://aftersexed.com/